Typical Untypical Kinda Guy
the cycle in its most basic depiction, if only life was as black and white as this.
1. Meet Someone New:
- find a a new interest/attraction, learn what they like and start to like it as well, use the time spent together to truly enjoy life because we all have 4634 x more fun with good company. sure the endgame seems like a bummer, but life without finding someone to enjoy it with, is equally shitty.
2. Get Attached:
- this is like a double edged sword, because fuck when you get attached to people, you keep telling yourself you’re stupid to, but you cant help it and you love the feelings they inspire inside you, everything that you do now has two different scenarios, doing it with them, or doing it without them, those walks you took that were the reason you two met, before you took them and enjoyed them, they were never an element then, but now doing it with them…its like the experience is so much better. attachment isn’t as bad as everyone makes it out to be…oh don’t get attached blah blah…honestly the reason this next thing happens…has more to do with the fact that you were always afraid of being attached in the first place…people play such silly games with each other.
3. Get Hurt:
- dun dun dunnnnn, it sucks. you want to crawl under a rock and die. all that time spent now feels wasted. why did you let yourself get close to them in the first place? YOU KNEW THIS WOULD HAPPEN. you hate them or they hate you or some such nonsense. you look back at all the memories and cry, all for nothing. wrong.
- i don’t think i ever dwell on break ups. i mean there’s the week or two of shittiness. but then you start to take the experience as a lesson, some it takes a bit longer but they do it eventually, they learn what went wrong, they start to analyze the person they were with, the good AND the bad, not just one or the other. and theyre able to understand why they arent with that person anymore. the memories should always be cherished along with the experiences you had with that person, because though the end hurts, you would never have experienced what you did with anyone else, sure you could do the same things with another, but its a different experience entirely, and a good life is one full of new things, whether its 543523 things with that one person, or 400 new things with a few different people. learn to enjoy your life and what youve had, rather than dwell on what you currently cant have anymore.
4. Moving On:
- well it’s about time, i’m glad you’ve finally realized that shutting yourself off because of something isn’t helping you live. and that that person has been living while you haven’t, time to make up for lost time, the pity party has left the building. now you have learned some new things, so start being happy again, you don’t have anyone to occupy your time right now but alone time is good, you start learning to focus on yourself more, and just about when you get into a steady routine of being alone
5. Meet Someone New:
- Look to Number 1 for explanation.
Yalls a bunch of masochist if this is the mindset. Foreals.
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